a boy... oh wait a GIRL

I apologize for no pictures, but I would have to scan the ultrasound pictures that they printed and that seems way too much work at the moment... pretty much because we don't have a scanner, which usually would prevent me from blogging at all, but I am fighting it. A words only blog. So fun!

So, the Wednesday I was 16 weeks pregnant we decided to get a gender determination ultrasound at a pregnancy spa, that just so happened to be in the back of a salon. Yes, we had to walk by women getting their hair and nails done to a small room in the back. It was very clean and the lady was super nice, so I didn't feel the least bit nervous it was going to harm our growing baby. She started the ultrasound that was meant to be about 10 minutes long. "A crotch shot and bam you are done" kinda thing. But, our baby really liked his/her legs crossed and made it way difficult for the tech to determine the sex. Over 30 minutes later, Chris thought he saw a penis and the tech at the end felt like she got a couple glimpses of a "floating penis"... I was pretty ok with that, even though I told her a couple times "it is totally ok if you can't tell.. I just want you to be sure".. she seemed pretty sure. So, I giggled all the way home, day dreaming about being the mom of stinky boys and having brothers that would surely love each other the rest of their lives.

I figured life would be way easy having another boy. Same nursery. Same paint color in our new house. No new clothes. I feel super comfortable with boys, etc.

Then we had our 18-20 week ultrasound scheduled for a Monday morning. I was 18 weeks since I had a midwife appointment the following week and needed the results for her. This ultrasound checks all the anatomy and makes sure there is a heart and brain, etc. We found out when we got there that they no longer allowed toddlers in the room, so Chris and Hartz had to wait in the lobby. (Don't worry I filled out a survey explaining how they should let people know that kinda stuff when they schedule appointments, especially because he was allowed back at my 8 week ultrasound) The same tech I had for my very first ultrasound walked me back and I was just chatting and said that we found out it was a boy a couple weeks ago. She just smiled and said we will confirm it, no biggie. So, the ultrasound starts and she is kinda quiet (more quiet than the first time) but we talk about the heart, brain and kidneys. Once she is done, she asked me "now who told you it was a boy?" ... It was definitely asked in a tone of voice possibly scared of my reaction.. and I just started laughing and said, "it isn't a boy, is it?" and she started laughing and said "I have seen a girl this whole time".... she wanted to get another tech into confirm that it really is a she since we were told boy and the stinkin girl closes her legs, puts her hand in the way, and there is a big ole cord preventing them from seeing. I joked about her being modest and they made me pee and go get Chris to see if she would move. I wasn't going to tell Chris until we got back but I was smirking so big he knew something was up... I said something like "it isn't a boy" while laughing uncontrollably and he was like "what?!" We got back in the room and she finally gave us a shot where both techs confirmed girl. They did mention it was a tough gender determination, so I definitely feel like I need reconfirmation. But, holy cow could we really be entering the foreign land of girls?? Girl clothes?? Tights attached to shorts?? Bows in the hair?? 18 different pairs of shoes for different occasions?? I think I need a training class or something.

On a serious note.  Chris and I feel so incredibly blessed to just be able to have another baby. We will be so thrilled whether a boy or a girl comes out. :)

18 months, 19 months, pregnancy, house...

So, I have totally slacked blogging and I have lots of excuses. One major one is being exhausted. I can't remember being as tired when I was pregnant with Hartz, but I was working every day pretending I wasn't pregnant and shoving down snacks and afternoon cokes daily. Now, when I put Hartz down for a nap, I feel like I could stand with my eyes shut and be out till bedtime. ha. So, simply put blogging has not been so much of a priority. Otherwise, I feel really great and we are thrilled to be blessed with another sweet baby at the end of July. 

13 weeks

Our boy is 1 1/2 years old plus 1 month.

18 month doctor visit update
24 lbs 2 oz (25th percentile)
33 inches (60th percentile)
head is 75th percentile

He got a couple shots and we won't head back to dr amber until he is 2!! seems so crazy that we won't go to the doctor but once a year from then on.

New words:
Batman (with dancing following to "na-na-na-na-na, BATMAN")
Bear (with a drawn out rrrr at the end.. sounds more like BURRR)
Up

He signs please all the time. We are getting the sign sometimes before the whine for something... progress.

He is napping 2-3 hours and it is glorious. He is waking up in the morning way too early, but I keep hoping it is the last 8 teeth coming in... ok, I am not quite sure how many teeth are coming in, but he refuses to let me look in there and I learned you DO NOT stick your finger in a toddlers mouth. hurts bad. He gnaws on his hand at night especially, so something seems to be going on.

He loves bath time.. we call it "swimming" .. he lays on his belly and kicks and kicks and kicks... with giggling and looking at me after every time. Do we really have to pay for swim lessons?!

He loves being outside and kicking and throwing balls.

He gives kisses randomly and will sometimes snuggle if you ask him. I LOVE THIS. SO MUCH.

We did move his car seat forward facing and car rides are way more enjoyable. Do you know how easy it is to just hand goldfish to a kid facing you in the backseat, than chucking them over a carseat and praying he finds them so he will stop fussing?!

He is imitating us way more too. He likes to use tupperware and wooden dishes to "cook" up some meals for us.

Chris let a few of us ladies go away for a night and took Hartz to Epcot. Best Daddy Ever.

Epcot Trip with Daddy

Nemo Exhibit at Epcot

On another front, we think we have purchased a new home. We are closing Feb 17th, so I guess nothing is for sure until you leave closing with the keys in your hand, right?! We are way excited to have space and be on a street that Hartz will ride his bike on one day. It is definitely bittersweet to be leaving our first home. 

I of course didn't take a picture of the front of the house on inspection day, so you just get a back side peek. 

This was a blog that should have been about 8 separate ones. I apologize. But, I do now feel caught up. Whew.

The Holidays: Part 3

We spent Christmas in Pensacola with Chris' parents. We began the trip with announcing baby #2 is coming in July via a card. (See photos) Hartz had another very serious year with Santa again. 

Then we hit up the restaurant/bar where Hogpaw plays guitar and sings every Thursday night. Hartz danced the night away... this boy has some moves. We call this one the "Crouching Tiger"

The next night consisted of lights at the zoo. It was super cold and very strange being at the zoo at night. Seemed like the animals were going to sneak out and take over. 

Christmas morning brought electric trains that threw out sparks, life size tee-pees, a hand crafted rocking chair, and a way yummy breakfast by Nana. We had a wonderful time. 

The Holidays Part 2: Disney

Hartz's best bud Bronson drove down for a weekend of fun at Disney. Blake and Beth also tagged along. Day 1 we went to the Magic Kingdom.

Minnie blew me a kiss

Cool Dad

Personalized Hatz

The girls got them matching shirts (again)

Day 2, Heather and I took Hartz to the Animal Kingdom. Hartz got to point at all the animals and get his picture taken with almost every single Disney character imaginable. He loved it.

Mom and Hartz rode the triceratops

Mickey is my homeboy

Donald's OK too

Too much to handle

The Holidays Part 1: Thanksgiving

We kicked off the holidays by spending Thanksgiving in beautiful Kansas City! Special thanks go out to the Walkers for hosting 15 people under one roof for four days. We got to head out to Lawrence for an evening where we met up with almost every single one of Heather's aunts, uncles, and cousins.

Warning

Warning: I am taking this Christmas vacation in Pensacola to catch up on blogging. Hope it doesn't make you sick of the Van Slyke family. Here we go...

I AM A LIAR. (added on Dec 29th)

17 months

Update on the Hartz-man and life. 17 months of fun... a little late.

Halloween: Hartz told us he wanted to be Captain America (Chris says he really wanted to be Swamp Thing, but that was way too hard to make happen) .. we got to go to a super fun party at a friend's house in our Musikgarten class a few days before Halloween. On Halloween, we headed out to the McGraths and had yummy chili and tons of fun with all the babies trick or treating. 

Captain America!

Sam taking a snooze

Hat swap with Peyton

House for sale: We put our wonderful home on the market. We will see what happens! 

Smores: Hartz had his first bonfire and taste of the goodness of smores. Of course, the mosquitos LOVE him and attacked his forehead while we were outside.

Aunt Katie Visit: Aunt Katie came down to visit us while Uncle Robert went for a boys weekend. We had SO much fun. Play time with Hartz, wine with just us girls, yummy breakfast, and house hunting. Katie took some amazing pictures of Hartz while she was here. I am always so thankful for her capturing the beauty of my kid. 

Reading books

New "sweet" face, right?!

    

Loving watering plants!

Sweet Boy

Picking oranges with daddy

Daddy's Birthday: We went over to the Leavitts for some wings and other yummy food to celebrate Chris' birth. Our small group can always have a good time together. Was super low key.. girl talk, while boys watch football. Perfection :) 

Hartz Update

Hartz has been loving to dance! Runs to the stereo and says "dans" .. once the music starts he starts waving his arms and spinning. Pretty funny. Yo Gabba Gabba CD is the jam (thanks to the Pearsons!)

He is signing "more" for more or please. Just seemed to happen overnight. I had given up on signing, but I have to say it is way cute.

He has moved up to size 6 shoes.

He can say ouch, uh oh, dance, trash, meows for cat still, dog is "da"... he is really trying hard to repeat what we say. I can feel the non-stop toddler talking approaching.

Tooth #12 is popping out. On bottom front right.

We moved to ONE nap! Ah. He stayed awake a few days through his afternoon nap and was CRANKY by 5pm. Wise friends told me it was the time to push him to one nap. So, we play and stay awake until noon. He goes 2-3 hours as far as sleeping. Has been an adjustment for me... our schedule has really changed, but this is where we stay until he goes to Kindergarten I hear.

He is running everywhere.

Loves climbing up into his chair in his room to read books.

He kept straddling his tow truck toy and the cat... decided it was time to buy him a truck he could ride. Loves the thing. Maybe I will get a picture for next month.

Gives real kisses. Mouth shut.

Wrestles with daddy... while I holler to make sure he stays sweet and snuggly.

That sums it up. We have an almost 1 1/2 year old. Yikes.